Save the date · Invitation · RSVPבר מצווה
Bar mitzvah invitation online: from tefillin to the party.
A bar mitzvah invitation in 4 languages, with the Hebrew date. Each household gets its link on WhatsApp, sees only the moments it is invited to, and replies for the whole household.
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Invitation designs for it
Each design is a small world: a setting, a gesture, music composed for it. Pick one, add your names, and your guests reply moment by moment.
Sparkler
At night, a sparkler writes your names; your guests’ fingers light up your photos.
Premiere
Your photos as a trailer, then the film poster; your guests reply with a clapperboard.
Tear-off calendar
A tear-off pad: each photo is a dated page, up to the big day circled in ink.
Video game
A console, a hero, levels to clear; as a couple, two players moving forward together.
The tour
A concert: the curtain opens, the record spins, the setlist and backstage pass.
Cyberpunk neon
A city at night, in fine rain, that lights up under the guest’s finger.
Save the date
Start with a save-the-date
Announce the date as soon as it is set: your loved ones save it to their calendar, and the same link later becomes the full invitation.
For a bar mitzvah, announce the date as soon as it is set.
Several moments, one invitation
Everyone is invited to their moments.
You decide who comes to what. Pick a household to see what it receives.
Example. The moments, households and places are yours to set.
Myriam & Daniel
invite you to Nathan’s bar mitzvahFor: Nathan’s grandparents
- Tefillin ceremonyThursday, February 18, 2027 · 7:30 am · Synagogueי״א באדר א׳ תשפ״ז
- Called to the TorahSaturday, February 20, 2027 · 9 am · Synagogue, then kiddushי״ג באדר א׳ תשפ״ז
- Festive lunchSunday, February 21, 2027 · 12:30 pm · Reception hallי״ד באדר א׳ תשפ״ז
What you get
Everything you need, simply.
Designed with Sephardic, Ashkenazi, Mizrahi and secular families.
Sent on WhatsApp, household by household
Each household gets its own link, sent from your phone. No group, no broadcast list.
One reply per household
Each household says how many people are coming, moment by moment. Nothing is assumed for them.
The Hebrew date, worked out for you
The Hebrew date appears on the invitation, next to the civil date.
The caterer’s questions
Dietary needs, allergies, transport: add the questions you need.
Who replied, who hasn’t
Follow the replies live, and resend the link to anyone who hasn’t answered yet.
The replies in a file
Download the list of replies for the caterer or the venue (a CSV file that opens in Excel).
Around the bar mitzvah
The traditions, explained.
To understand every custom, and prepare it well.
Bar mitzvah by community: what really changes
LogisticsKashrut and the Beit Din: How to Choose Your Caterer
GuideThe Bar Mitzvah Parashah: How to Showcase It
TipsWhatsApp reminders: a pace to suit your guests
GuideHebrew on Your Invitation: The 5 Words to Know
CultureBar and bat mitzvah: the Hebrew birth date and the parashah
GuideBar or Bat Mitzvah at the Western Wall: What to Know Before You Book
When is the bar mitzvah?
At 13, by the Hebrew calendar: the date counts from your son’s Hebrew birthday. He is called to the Torah on a Shabbat, or on a Monday or Thursday, when the Torah is read; many families also hold a tefillin ceremony on a weekday.
Can we invite some households to the party only?
Yes. You create your moments (tefillin, Torah reading, kiddush, party…) and choose, household by household, who is invited to what. Each household sees only its moments and says how many people are coming to each.
Do our guests need an account?
No. They open the link they got on WhatsApp and reply. That’s all.
Can the invitation be in Hebrew?
Yes. The invitation and the replies work in Hebrew, reading right to left, and the Hebrew date appears next to the civil date.
How much does it cost?
Nothing during the beta: you create, send and follow your invitations without paying, and with no ads.
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