Save the date · Invitation · RSVPבת מצווה
Bat mitzvah invitation online: from the ceremony to the party.
A bat mitzvah invitation in 4 languages, with the Hebrew date. Each household gets its link on WhatsApp, sees only the moments it is invited to, and replies for the whole household.
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Invitation designs for it
Each design is a small world: a setting, a gesture, music composed for it. Pick one, add your names, and your guests reply moment by moment.
Sparkler
At night, a sparkler writes your names; your guests’ fingers light up your photos.
Premiere
Your photos as a trailer, then the film poster; your guests reply with a clapperboard.
Tear-off calendar
A tear-off pad: each photo is a dated page, up to the big day circled in ink.
Video game
A console, a hero, levels to clear; as a couple, two players moving forward together.
The tour
A concert: the curtain opens, the record spins, the setlist and backstage pass.
Street art
A wall, spray cans, a name spray-painted before your eyes.
Save the date
Start with a save-the-date
Announce the date as soon as it is set: your loved ones save it to their calendar, and the same link later becomes the full invitation.
For a bat mitzvah, announce the date as soon as it is set.
Several moments, one invitation
Everyone is invited to their moments.
You decide who comes to what. Pick a household to see what it receives.
Example. The moments, households and places are yours to set.
Sarah & Julien
invite you to Tamar’s bat mitzvahFor: Tamar’s grandparents
- CeremonySunday, June 27, 2027 · 11 am · Synagogueכ״ב בסיון תשפ״ז
- LunchSunday, June 27, 2027 · 1 pm · Community hallכ״ב בסיון תשפ״ז
- PartySunday, June 27, 2027 · 6 pm · Reception hallכ״ב בסיון תשפ״ז
What you get
Everything you need, simply.
Designed with Sephardic, Ashkenazi, Mizrahi and secular families.
Sent on WhatsApp, household by household
Each household gets its own link, sent from your phone. No group, no broadcast list.
One reply per household
Each household says how many people are coming, moment by moment. Nothing is assumed for them.
The Hebrew date, worked out for you
The Hebrew date appears on the invitation, next to the civil date.
The caterer’s questions
Dietary needs, allergies, transport: add the questions you need.
Who replied, who hasn’t
Follow the replies live, and resend the link to anyone who hasn’t answered yet.
The replies in a file
Download the list of replies for the caterer or the venue (a CSV file that opens in Excel).
Around the bat mitzvah
The traditions, explained.
To understand every custom, and prepare it well.
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When is the bat mitzvah?
At 12, by the Hebrew calendar: the date counts from your daughter’s Hebrew birthday. Depending on the community, it is a ceremony or a festive meal where she gives a dvar Torah (a talk on the Torah portion), or a Torah reading.
Can we invite her classmates to the party only?
Yes. You create your moments (ceremony, lunch, party…) and choose, household by household, who is invited to what. Each household sees only its moments and says how many people are coming to each.
Do our guests need an account?
No. They open the link they got on WhatsApp and reply. That’s all.
Can we ask about allergies?
Yes. Add the ready-made questions (diet, allergies, transport…): each household answers with its invitation, and you download the answers as a CSV file for the caterer.
How much does it cost?
Nothing during the beta: you create, send and follow your invitations without paying, and with no ads.
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